February 05, 2012

Love? is that just word or...

kalo kata orang-orang, bulan ini adalah bulan penuh Cinta..

sebenernya ga mesti bulan ini aja kita mengungkapkan cinta..Cinta itu bisa diungkapkan kapanpun dan untuk siapapun..

gw sih bukan mau ngebahas cinta, tapi janji dibalik kata-kata cinta itu..
seringkali seseorang mengungkapkan kata-kata manis yang membuai pasangannya tanpa berfikir dan tau makna dari kata tersebut, apalagi sampai berfikir akibat dari perkataan yang mungkin saja tidak sesuai dengan kenyataannya kelak..

sempat terfikir oleh gw, kenapa sih orang mengucap janji suci pernikahan kalo pada akhirnya dia merusak janji itu sendiri? (tidak semua orang). disaat seseorang berusaha menjaga hubungan baik itu, apakah dia tau kalau pasangannya melakukan hal yang sama? atau malah berbuat sebaliknyaa? itulah yang gw ga mengerti..ini hanya sekilas pemikiran gw aja tentang janji seharusnya dijaga dengan baik, tapi malah dirusak dengan keegoisan pribadi manusia.

akan lebih indah ceritanya kalau kita saling menjaga perasaan masing-masing, bukan hanya diri kita, tapi  teman, keluarga, pacar..bukan dengan omongan, tapi tindakan yang membuat orang lain merasa dihargai dan dicintai..







keep your love for all around

4 comments:

raziq (qizar) said...

Ternyata romantis jg nih si bunda..tp dalem jg buat raziq nih :D

Tara Hutami said...

hahahhaaa,,,kenapa ziq? nngerasa kesindir ya?hihi ,maaf dh yaa

Anonymous said...

I completely agree with you Tara. Don't play around with LOVE because it will hurt yourself and others. And of course, ALL of us have experienced where LOVE really HURTS..

This topic of LOVE is really interesting and I learned this in psychology class when I was back in high school long time ago. Study for whole semester specifically about love, lust and attraction. And its interesting, let me quickly share what I know about LOVE from a science perspective.

Do you know why in movies and cartoons when couples fall in love and then they show cute cupids wearing diapers and wings flying around shooting love arrows. The cupids make them fall in love BUT for a short period of time ONLY. Now lets look at it in a science way.

It turns out that there are chemical reactions in our body to increase drastically when we fall in love which are called dopamine, adrenaline and norepinephrine. Dopamine is a feeling of happiness and goes into excitement and joy. Italian scientists states that those chemical reactions will last for 6months to 2 years. When the couples are settling down (stable phase) those chemical enzymes in the body fades away. So, I guess the cute diaper cupids have left the building ^_^

That's why, people who got married too early sometimes (not all marriages) have difficulties in surviving and sustaining the LOVE.

I found a quote from Mignon McLaughlin

"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."

so the cupids shoots unlimited arrows of love.

and TRUE LOVE is UNCONDITIONAL meaning that if you love the person, you will love them no matter what even if they become something you disagree with.

Tara Hutami said...

hi uda, i really surprised to know there are class study about love in whole semester,hiihih
yup, i agree.. marriage is when you love your 'partner' unconditionally..

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